Fake-Love

Fake Love Can Create Self-Destruction

In a world driven by superficiality and self-centered, fake love become the reality of our lives. Fake love seems like the real love but the difference is the only thing is the fake love try to control you, manipulate you with all the fake promises that they have to offer you. Lack of commitment, communication gap, trust issues, creates self-doubt and comparison. Many
people fall victim to fake love, only to realize later that it was all an illusion.

Lake of Commitment:

Commitment is not about the words spoken, commitment is about action, showing up and presence at the time when needed. Fake love make you believe and convince you to believe their words; however, they have no intention to commit with you.

Communication Gap: 

Communication is very necessary in any relationship. When someone is running away from the communication, they never have time to listen or understands what you are trying to say, turn all the blame on you, giving name that you are childish, and always make excuses that they are busy. Those people are very self-centered and they only think about them and their convenience.

Trust Issues:

Trust is the foundation of anything, when that breaks or losses their faith >than everything else brake easily. Trust is that you can’t see, it happens when two people genuinely create that space for each other to feel comfortable and feel at peace like home. Fake love makes you feel curious, confuse, and gives you weird feelings that become hard to have the trust.

Self-Doubt:

Lack of genuine connection and validation can promote the deep self- doubt, dominant people to believe they are unworthy of a healthy relationship. They make you feel like you are the main problem in the relationship and create the spiral of circumstances.

Comparison:

In the attempt to please the individual who is not genuinely invested, individuals might sacrifice their own needs, choice, values, ethics because their brain is manipulated by the other individual. They might do things are unhealthy for them and suffer inside just to prove their self-worth.

Conclusion:

In essence, fake love it feels like real love. There is a very thin line that we all missed because we all believe in sacrifice. True love will support you, value you, you’re thinking, perspective, ethics, believe in communication and give you respect that you deserve. When you have to lose yourself and your self-esteem that is not true love. True love makes time for you not excuses.

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